another person. Not givtsomeone else. Not given to
wine, not greedy of filthy lucre and holding the mystery of the faith in a pure conscience. That these also first be proved
and then let them use the office of a deacon, being found blameless. The same should be said about any minister or bishop
or anyone who holds any kind of office within the church.
Jesus Christ said to Peter and through him, he spoke to all the ministry. He said, feed my sheep. So, what happens
when a minister is more concerned with feeding himself than feeding the sheep? What if he heaps burdens on the people in order
to live the high life? What if he does covet filthy lucre, if he does want the good things of life, if he does want to have
a grand house, a great car and all the best of everything. If he does want to exalt himself instead of humbling himself. If
he does look at it as the sheep serving him, instead of the him serving the sheep.
A certain minister once came to Vancouver and he was a new minister and he gave us his first speech. He stood
up there and he says, "Let's get one thing straight brethren. I'm not here to serve you. You are here to serve
me." That is an appalling attitude. But it was an attitude extent in the Worldwide Church of God in the 80's, as
it is extent in most of the various groups of the Church of God today. The ministry do not want to serve the people. They
want to be served by the people.
What does Almighty God have to say about that? We find his answer in Ezekiel 34, And the word of the Lord came
into me saying, Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel, prophesy, and say unto them, Thus said the Lord God
unto the shepherds; Woe be to the shepherds of Israel that do feed themselves! Should not the shepherds feed the flock? You
eat the fat, the good things and you clothe yourselves with the best wool, you kill them that have fed: but you feed not the
flock. The diseased have you not strengthened, neither have you healed that which was sick, neither have you bound up that
which was broken, neither have you brought again that which was driven away, neither have you sought that which was lost;
but with force and with cruelty have you ruled them. And they were scattered, because there is no shepherd: and they became
meat to all the beasts of the field, when they were scattered.
What can we say about the church today, are not the sheep scattered? Are there not hundreds of groups and perhaps
hundreds more standing alone and why is this? Because the shepherds make merchandise of the sheep. And they seek preeminence
and they fight amongst themselves for positions of power and the sheep are scattered; what a sad, sad state of affairs.
Verse 6, My sheep wandered through the mountains, upon every high hill: yea, my flock was scattered upon all
the face of the earth, and none did seek or search after them. Isn't that the truth today? People, ministers are so interested
in their own little group, in fleecing their own little flock that they can't be bothered caring about anyone or anything
else. They can't be bothered with looking after or taking care of the scattered sheep.
Therefore you shepherd, you ministers in the Church of God today, hear the word of the Eternal, As I live, saith
the Lord God, surely because my flock became a prey, and my flock became meat to every beast of the field, because there was
no shepherd, neither did my shepherds search for my flock, but the shepherds fed themselves, and fed not my flock;
Therefore, O ye shepherds, hear the word of the Lord; Thus saith the Eternal
God; Behold, I am against the shepherds, the ministry of the Church of God, and I will require my flock at their hand, and
cause them to cease from feeding the flock; neither shall the shepherds feed themselves any more; for I will deliver my flock
out of their mouth, that they may not be meat for them.
For thus saith the Eternal God; Behold, even I, will both search my sheep, and seek them out. As a shepherd seeketh
out his flock in the day that he is among his sheep that are scattered; so will I seek out my sheep, and will deliver them
out of all places where they have been scattered in the cloudy and dark day. And will bring them out from, among people, and
gather them from the countries, and will bring them to their own land, and feed them upon the mountains of Israel by the rivers,
and in all the inhabited places of the country.
And I will feed them in a good pasture, and upon the high mountains of Israel shall their fold be: there shall
they lie in a good fold, and in a fat pasture shall they feed upon the mountains of Israel. I will feed my flock, and I will
cause them to lie down in safety, saith the Eternal. I will seek that which was lost, and bring again that which was driven
away and bind up that which was broken and strengthen that which was sick: but I will destroy the fat and the strong; I will
feed them with judgment.
As for you, O my flock, saith the Eternal God; Behold, I will judge between flocks and flocks and between the
rams and he-goats. Does it seem a small thing unto you to have eaten up the good pasture, but you must tread down with your
feet the residue of your pastures? You shepherds, you have drunk of the deep waters and you must foul the residue with your
feet? And as for my flock, they eat that which you have trodden with your feet; and they drink that which you have fouled
with your feet.
Therefore thus saith the Lord God unto them; Behold, I, even I, will judge between the fat cattle and between
the lean cattle. Because you have thrust with the with side and shoulder, and pushed the diseased with your horns, so you
have scattered them abroad; I will save my flock, and they shall no more be a prey; and I will judge between cattle and cattle.
And I will set up one shepherd over them, and he shall feed them, even my servant David; he shall feed them, and he shall
deliver them.
This whole chapter is talking about the nation of Israel and how they will be scattered by their enemies because
they had lost sight of God. And how God will eventually deliver them and a resurrected David shall be king over all Israel.
But this is also talking on a different plane, on a spiritual plane.
It is talking about God's people at this time, His church and how the ministry abuse and make merchandise
of God's sheep and divide them and scatter them. And God says He will not hold those shepherds guiltless, should they
not feed the sheep and instead feed themselves.
This is what God wants. He wants his ministry to set an example of keeping God's commandments. To set an
example of righteousness, of not being guilty of desiring filthy lucre or monetary and physical advantage and gain, not guilty
of drunkenness and lewdness and bullying and dominating.
He wants his ministers to be faithful to Him, to follow the example of Jesus Christ, who gave himself for the
sheep. Who gave himself totally, fully, completely, pouring out his blood, his life's blood for the sheep. That's
how He wants the ministers to behave. To keep the commandments of God. To teach the ways of God. To set an example, following
the example of Jesus Christ and living in a godly fashion. Giving himself for the sheep. Not using the sheep for his own advantage.
Never ever, ever, saying the sheep are here to serve us. Rather than saying that he is there to serve the sheep.
This is what God expects of his ministry. He expects a life of godly service. Teaching people to keep all God's
commandments. Teaching them to love one another. Teaching them to love God and teaching them to follow the example of Jesus
Christ. And doing a good part of this teaching, not with words; but by their own example.
This is the shepherd that God will accept. This is a ministry that God will accept. A ministry of service to
the people of God. A ministry of obedience to the commandment of Jesus Christ who said, feed my sheep.
God the Father created physical things in a certain way, to teach us lessons about himself. To what then shall
we liken God and to what shall we liken the church and the kingdom? Is it not the family? Did God not say that we should call
him Father? Did He not provide a son? Did He not tell us that we should marry husband and wife? And did He not say that such
a marriage was an allegory of Christ's relationship with the church?
If the church is to become the bride of Christ, a chaste virgin to be presented to Christ. You know these scriptures.
There are very many scattered throughout the Bible. But let us first turn to Ephesians in chapter 5, starting in verse 20.
We should be giving thanks always for all things unto God and the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ; Submitting
yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even
as Christ is the head of the church: and He is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so let
wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself
for it.
You husbands, do you love your wives to the point of giving your lives for your wives? Are you willing to submit
yourself and your needs to the needs of your wife? Are you willing to serve your wife as Christ served the church? Christ
taught the church. He served the church. He humbled himself, to give himself to the church that He loved. The church was His
wife.
Do you husbands, do you serve your wife? Do you give up your own special desires for your wife? Do you give up
going to the pub every night to have the money to buy her a new dress? Do you care about her enough to spend time with her?
Do you really follow the example of Jesus Christ in how you lead your wife?
Yes wives are to submit to their husbands. But also as in verse 21, Submit yourselves one to another in the fear
of God. You must love your wife. Take care of her. Fulfill your vows that you made on your wedding day.
A whole lot of marriage problems could be solved instantly if people, both husbands and wives were to simply
realize that when they stood on their wedding day and repeated those vows, they were not making vows to one another.
They were making vows to Almighty God. They were telling God, I will love and serve and obey my husband. And
the husband is telling God, I promise you God, that I will love and take care of and give myself totally and completely for
my wife. Subjecting all my desires to her needs. And the wife saying, I will subject all my desires to his needs.
So that both parties were to have the attitude of total commitment and total love and total service toward the
other. Following the example of Jesus Christ who totally committed himself to the Father and through the Father totally committed
himself to serving the church. Giving himself for the church, feeding the sheep, caring for them, being a good shepherd and
leading them to green pasture.
In Ephesians 5, Therefore as the church is subject to Christ, so should wives be subject to
their husband. And husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church, and gave himself for it; That He might sanctify
and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That He might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot,
or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So, ought men to love their wives as their
own bodies, their own lives. He that loves his wife loves himself.
How many men say, my wife should submit to me. Maybe she's not submitting to you because you are an overbearing,
cruel tyrant. And the example you set is offensive and puts her off and destroys any respect that she might have for you.
If she is submitting to you it is because you should be a leader. And a leader leads by setting a godly example.
If you love her the way Christ loves the church, then you will give yourself for her good. If you respected her
needs and respected her ideas and opinion and spent time with her. And when making a decision you discuss
it with her and got her input and reasoned it out together with her and made the decision together, you would find that she
would start having some respect for you.
To be loved, you must be loveable. To have friends, you must show yourself friendly. To have respect, you must
be respectable and you must respect others. You must lead the way by setting the example. If you set an example of being mean
or bullying or dominating, your wife will pick up on that and she will be offended by that and turned off by that and it will
definitely affect your relationship.
Any man who bullies his wife or abuses her or hits her, deserves to be taken out, in my opinion and have the
same thing done to him. If you beat your wife, you should be taken out and lashed, as far as I'm concerned. And I think
God feels the same way. There are not going to be any bullies in his kingdom. You have to learn to treat your wife the way
Jesus Christ treats you. The way He treats His people, His church.
If you are going to be in God's kingdom, you must be full of love, which is a gift from the God of love.
And if you are a bully, if you are dominating, it just proves one thing; you are very, very far from God. And you are not
setting a godly example.
Now, you wives don't blame your husbands for everything you do wrong either. Try your best to be cooperative
and loving and caring toward your husbands and if both sides were committed to each other and committed to considering the
other to be of more importance then their own selves, to be more important than their own personal needs, most problems will
be resolved. Both parties, man and wife have to learn to submit to one another and cooperate with one another and love one
another and give themselves for one another as Jesus Christ did for and gave himself for the church.
And one of the big problems in the Church of God today has been that men have followed the example of erring
ministers. That, dominating personalities in the ministry have affected by their example and their instruction; the attitudes
and behavior of husbands. Which in turn have affected the attitudes of and behavior of wives in relationship to how they teach
their children.
Husbands abuse wives. Wives abuse children. Husbands abuse children. It is an endless cycle because children
grow up knowing nothing else. And so they treat their wives and their children the same way that they were treated.
Friends it is up to us to put a stop to this, to end this vicious cycle. It is up to us to repent before God,
to go on our knees before him. Ask him to fill us with his spirit of love, of faith, of patience, of courage to do what's
right and the wisdom to know what is right. It is up to us to study His word and to break this vicious cycle. And learn to
be loving, to be affectionate, to be forgiving, to be caring.
How many marriages break down because somebody holds a grudge? They just can't forgive some perceived slight.
We have to learn to forgive each other as Christ forgives us. For only as we forgive others, will we be forgiven.
In verse 28, So, ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. For he that loves his wife loves himself.
No man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord nourishes and cherishes the church:
For we are members of His body, that is the church, and of His flesh, that is the body of Christ, the church and of His bones.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
They shall be considered as one entity, one family.
This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. The church is the bride of Christ. When
they are fully united at the resurrection, the church being changed to spirit and uniting fully with Christ. They shall be
one. One in thought. One in attitude. One in